When my husband Paul was six years old, he and his family moved from Newtown – the little community in which we live now – to live in the capital city of St. John’s. Their parents relocated so that Paul’s oldest sibling David could attend the Vera Perlin school for his special needs.
On the day of the big move, Paul crawled up under the house – the actual house we live in now – in a show of protest. “Everyone should be able to live where they were born,” he argued through tears, but the die had been cast. He was pulled out and packed into the car with everyone else.
On the very first day at their new school, Paul and his other brother Kevin, who is one year older, decided to walk home from school for lunch, despite being told to stay there and eat the lunch they’d brought. But when they saw other children going home, they wanted to go as well. Unfamiliar with their new neighbourhood, the two boys got lost, and Kevin started to cry.
Brave little Paul tried his best to console his big brother by distracting him. “Don’t cry, Kev. Look at the pigeons,” he said, pointing at a bunch of them as they waddled across the sidewalk, hoping the strange, tame city birds might cheer him up. It worked, and they ended up following a classmate to his house. Between the jigs and the reels, their dad had to leave work and go pick them up.
Let’s go back a couple of years when Paul was four and Kevin was five, to another time the younger boy displayed his wisdom. A new addition to the family of three boys had arrived, and this time, it was a girl! When their mom brought baby Julie Ann home, the boys crowded around to get a look at their new sister. Kevin’s eyes opened wide when her diaper came off to be changed. “Look, Paul,” he said, incredulous. “She ain’t got nar topper!” (penis)
“No, ya foolish,” Paul said, enlightened beyond his years. “She got whatever Mom got.”
Now before you think I’m beating up on my brother-in-law, I’d like to share one more tale. Okay, two. When Paul was about nine and enjoying his summer vacation in Newtown, Kevin saved him from drowning. Paul was diving with some other boys off of Burnt Island, but he tired in the deep water and panicked. Kevin grabbed him by the hair on top of his head and pulled him to safety.
Years later, when Kevin was just beginning his teaching career, he and Paul were driving along in St. John’s one evening. Without warning, Kevin pulled over, stopped the car, and jumped out. He’d spied two teenage boys in a fist fight near the local hockey rink, and he wanted to stop them. Paul watched as he parted the boys, reasoned with them, and ended the scuffle.
It was a day he never forgot. Where most people would just keep going and not get involved, Kevin stepped in and tried to solve the problem. It made Paul really proud of his brother.
Paul confessed there were other boyhood fights where Kev stepped in and rescued Paul himself, fights my husband started and couldn’t finish. I would say he’s grateful for those too. And so am I. 🙂


Great stories Jennifer, they show a lot of warmth and love (as well as the humour!)
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Thanks! 🙂
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Jennifer, I love the East Coast accent. It makes those funny little stories even sweeter. And how wonderful that you and Paul live in his childhood home. I know I’d love to see inside the heritage home I first lived in when I was only 4. Old homes always hold a special place in our hearts. ❤
Blessings & hugs ~ Wendy ❀
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Thanks, Wendy. Heritage homes have a lot of beauty and character. We were just watching a story on the news about a huge old home in St. John’s being restored for heritage status. I hope they show it again when it’s completed.
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I’ve enjoyed the pictures you’ve posted on your blog showing the older East Coast homes. ❀
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Our house is 92 years old but it’s not a heritage home. We did a partly modern reno with modern windows, etc.
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You need good windows for your winters. I love the view you have. ❤
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Good windows are an absolute must because of our winters. Plus for seeing that view. ☺️
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I love stories like this … I keep thinking that one day I will get to recollecting and try to set down some of my own stories. But oh, how to tell them? Sherri of A View from My Summerhouse tells me I should explore memoir, but I’m not sure I have the courage. Maybe I should start with the stories that were shared with me as a child. I particularly enjoyed the ones my grandmother told me about my mother’s misadventures, lol.
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Thanks, Marlene. Yes, stories passed down from our parents and grandparents can be very engaging to most readers. Give it a shot! x
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Those were the hairdos, those were the days. You always seem to convey the sights, the sounds, the smells of Newfoundland to me. Nice post – thank you.
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Thanks so much, Frederick!
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How lovely, Jennifer… You brought to life some interesting vignettes of your husband’s early years. Now tell us something about yours…best wishes… Raj.
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Glad you liked them, Raj. As for my childhood, a few earlier posts: https://jenniferkellandperry.wordpress.com/2013/09/25/i-dream/
https://jenniferkellandperry.wordpress.com/2013/03/21/thats-my-father/
https://jenniferkellandperry.wordpress.com/2012/04/10/sometimes-im-still-that-st-johns-girl/
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Jennifer I a bit slow catching up on all your posts….what wonderful stories these are and I could see them in a novel. I bet you could too?
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Kath, like many writers, I like to incorporate some true snippets of my life inside the fiction. It gives it more authenticity, I think. Thank you.
Did you go on that writers retreat yet? How was it?
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No writers retreat, that would be special. Im going on an artist retreat Jennifer. I agree, I drop little snippets of my world in my story characters too, or stuff I overhear in conversations. Im a bit naughty because i love to listen to people talking in the streets. You can hear some amazing stories this way.
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Oh Kath, I meant artists retreat…I’m a little addled today with writing related issues, so I guess that’s why I said it. When do you go?
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Jennifer I would love to go to a writers retreat too! Any stuff to do with writing is way to far away for me. I’m into my editing course this week up to lesson 6 asking each character how they are suppose to make the reader feel. So good for me. I never realised how many characters I had in this draft until this exercise I have to write them all down. The art retreat is coming up in April about three weeks away. I am getting very excited.
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You sound like your slate is quite full, Kath. But being busy doing what you love is so worthwhile. 🙂
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What a lovely post and so amazing that you are now living in Paul’s childhood home!
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Yes, Julie, Paul is one of the lucky ones who has a happy childhood home to actually come home to. 😊
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Oh what lovely stories I liked them in fact I love to hear stories like these
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I love stories too, Joanne. Thanks for liking mine.
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Good stories, Jennifer. Childhood is so much fun.
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Glad you liked them, Jacqui. Childhood is such a wondrous time, as it should be.
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Your house must be so very special to both of you. Oh, the stories are great–so funny what little kids do and say…and then they grow up and amaze us.
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It is, Lois, but especially so for Paul, as you can imagine. Thanks! xo
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I enjoyed going down memory lane, and especially liked the happy ending. And the pictures are wonderful!
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Thanks, Elisa! 🙂
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Very nice memories, Jen. Thanks for sharing:).
Julie
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Thank you, Julie. I tried my best to write it the way it was told to me. 🙂
Jennifer xo
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Fabulous! Totally engrossed in this and wanted more! 😊. It brought back a memory of when my brother-in-law saved his brother (my husband) from drowning in the sea off the west coast of Ireland. I was oblivious to the situation, gathering shells with our small daughter. A long time ago but the memory shot straight to the front of my mind again when reading this x
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Wow, I guess it happened to a lot of people. My sister almost drowned me, trying to climb up on top of me to get to the surface and pushing me down under, in order to save herself! But she was just a little girl in a panic, so I forgave her. 🙂 Thanks, Christine. ❤
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I love stories Jennifer. I love that Paul gets to live in the house he was raised in – how amazing is that? ❤
Diana xo
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Yes, he got his happy ending after all (and he got yours truly too, ha ha!). Thanks, Diana. ❤
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And you’re better than any old house, even with that fantastic view!
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Of course! 😀
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